Can You Ever Really Plan Anything?

So the last week has been pretty good. There were a few days last week that were pretty rough...mostly just because I was bored. There has been a lot of rain around here lately and I did not work a whole lot last week. Shane was sick and in bed for quite a few days. Good news is he is feeling way better and we all had a good weekend.

So mostly, I am just really struggling with how much our lives have changed since all of this stuff happened with Avery. I just keep telling myself that everything happens for a reason, but jeez it's just so hard to believe sometimes. Shane and I have had many conversations about everything that happened and over and over we agree, no regrets. It's just that when all the parts of your life are suddenly stripped, all you can think about is how quickly you can put them back into place. Honestly, I just can't put all the pieces back into place. I want to so badly, but it's just not possible. It makes me so very frustrated. We are recovering from not only the loss of Ave, but also massive changes. I just keep telling myself that I have to trust mother time. I don't like her so much right now. I have to tell myself, "Wait, just slow down. It is ok if all of this does not get fixed tomorrow."

So since I can't fix everything tomorrow, I am going to take one thing at a time. So next on the agenda, finding a job. Hopefully I can find something in the counseling field. The goal is to start in January. We shall see. I guess just keep praying for us. Help us keep the faith.

Carissa